Tuesday, July 25, 2000
I have just spent some time in Bangkok.
I have been fortunate enough, in my work, to have visited many parts of the world. I was born and bred in Southern Africa; I have been to the USA, to the UK, to
France, Monaco, Monte Carlo, Nice, Italy, Austria, Sweden, Germany, Belgium, Holland, New Zealand, Japan, Singapore, and Malaysia. I now live in Australia and I have just been to Thailand.
So what?
Well, on the flight back from Bangkok to Melbourne I started to think about my life, how I have lived it, the experiences I have had and what all this has really meant to me. I thought about the people I have met and the relationships I have had. I thought about the way in which I acted and reacted in those relationships and experiences. I thought about all the things that have been said to me that have stuck with me until now. I thought about what it was in each of these circumstances that kept occurring, again and again. I thought about the outcomes of each experience and what the common thread was that tied all of my life together.
What was it that I kept setting up, living through and learning? What was the common slant? What was the common angle?
And then it hit me: I am scared. I am deeply afraid. And the fear is driving me to react, or act, in such a way as to set up the same set of
circumstances, the same causes to gain the same reactions, the same sequence of events to lead to the same results... over and over and over again.
What am I afraid of? An interesting and deeply involved question. One I have pondered hard over the last few weeks. Here is my current
thinking. I could be wrong!
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